In Loving Memory
Alan HoffmanSusanville, CA Parents: Siblings: Click here to view photo gallery |
Alan was a skateboarder, wakeboarder and a snowboarder. He lived for life and his life was taken to soon. His family and friends will never forget him.
Candles
I miss you so much but now dad is is with you I love you much |
RIP brother |
To everyone I’m glad that he has touched your heart he was an amazing person. Hope you all learn from his mistake miss you buddy I’ll see you when the time comes RIP bud. |
Tomorrow is 11 years. Tonight marks 11 years I last hugged you. If i could rewind I would have taken you home with me. I miss Alan tons!!! |
I miss you so much right now little brother. I can't believe how long it's been. I even miss your stinky feet. Goober. I hope you and your dad are resting easy, tell him hi for me. Love you both. |
Alan!!! I freaking miss you.
Friday will be 10 years! Both my kids know all about you, stephen and zara!
Alan was my first boyfriend ever!! Twice :) I'll never in my life forget that last hug from you on September 23,2006. Love and miss you!!!! |
I heard your story at my school and it was really touching R.I.P |
RIP |
We had an assembly today, and my friend cried her eyes out and she told me that you were her uncle i felt really bad, but your in a better place now. |
Alan, I heard your story today in our Assembly. All you had to say was "no." You were such a good looking guy, you had your whole life to have fun. I wish that people like you could have a second chance, to live in happiness. Skateboard, wave board, snowboard, play baseball. You had your whole life to have fun and it's all gone cause you disnt say "no." Hearing those stories today, I cried my eyes out! I couldn't stop staring at your picture and I had to write something. I didn't know you, I wish I had though. RIP Alan <3 Your gone but never forgotten. I know for a fact, I will always say "no" I love you! |
Many blessings to you and your family, Alan. You are never alone. |
I learned about this young boy's story through a school motivation ceremony. the N.O.P.E. program has taught me to be strong and live life to its fullest but don't take advantage of everything and anything. rest In Peace Allan Hoffman <3 |
r.i.p alan you were just in the wronge place in the wronge time your my new insperation to say no<3 |
We will continue to keep you and your family in our prayers. |
I had a nope thing at my school Alan let me just say you were in the wrong place at the wrong time
R.I.P |
Alan, still praying for you and your family. know you are skating those hills in heaven. RIP little Brother |
alan r.i.p ! |
Hi Alan :) well i had an assembly yesterday 11/10/11 and it was heart breaking to hear what happened to you and your best friend i hope you both are in heaven right now hanging out and skating:) R.I.P Alan and your best friend Shepherd and hope your in a better place :) |
So the other day at school NOPE was there....I saw like a whole bunch of pictures there and I'm sitting there telling my friend "Whats going on?" I was soo scared and I heard Alan's story and I was scared so BAD 'cause there are people ware I live that likes to do that stuff and the day after the day NOPE was at my school these guy just came up to me and asked you wanna try sumthin? and I was thinking about Alan.... I was like HELL NO!!!!!!!!! there's no way I'm gonna do that..........I just walked away so Alan I guess you can say is a very big in my life now...I don't know him but he just taught me something. |
I just heard the presentation today at school. I'm still not sure why but Alan's story is stuck in my mind and I've been thinking about him and his story ever since I left that gym. I'm not sure why but his story is and will be stuck in my mind for a very long time and possibly almost forever. He's my new reason to say no. |
r.i.p to alan hoffman tomorrow 12.17.2010 i have to walk around my school Monarch High with a picture of you. its for a club called SADD (students agains distructive dicisions) our club is to provide students with the best prevention tools possible
to deal with the issues of underage drinking, other drug use, impaired driving and other destructive decisions.
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Alan, I did't really know you but me and my friend Melissa heard about you at the nope assembly, and to be completely honest, we cried our eyes out. I was into drugs in the first two years of middle school, and hearing you and so many other people's tragedies really made me rethink what i was doing. your story really changed my life, and i've been clean for seven months now. i just wanted to say i'm really sorry this had to happen to you and you probably saved alot of other teenagers around the country too. you'll be missed<3 RIP |
Still praying. |
In three days it will be four years since you have been gone from us, and I carry your memory with me everyday. I miss you alot and you were always such a great friend. I just want you to know your memory lives on in my heart everyday. I love you and miss you dearly. |
Alan I had known you since we were in the first grade together, and up until the day you passed you were always a friend to me. I have so many different memories of you that I can't pick just one as my favorite. I love and miss you dearly. One day we will see each other again and I look forward to it. Love and miss you. |
Alan its been a long time and it dosent hurt any less then when it happened i miss you eveyday and i look forward to the day that we can skate again i love u
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Alan, I still think about you to this day. Me and your brother are best friends and will be forever. This in turn made you a brother to me as well. To this day I still feel the pain of losing a family member every time I think about yall. Brenda, Rod, and Zach... you are all family to me, and I love you all. Rest in peace Bro. |
– From Kennedy on May 18, 2010 |
i heard your story at my school and it touched me. im sorry for the lost. |
RIP |
I heard his story today, at school. It touched me greatly, and I know I now never want to try these things. I know he's missed greatly <3 |
Sorry for loss=( |
I was in a NOPE assembly today and saw your sons picture. There was nothing but good things to say about him. I am so sorry to hear that you lost him to early. It broke my heart hearing what happened and I will never forget his story. Your son is an inspiration to many and just remember that he is your angel. |
I was in a NOPE assembly today and saw your sons picture. There was nothing but good things to say about him. I am so sorry to hear that you lost him to early. It broke my heart hearing what happened and I will never forget his story. Your son is an inspiration to many and just remember that he is your angel. |
– From Anonymous on February 15, 2010 |
wow ok i found this on accident but im glad i did.. huh alan we all miss you and im so happy i got to know you for as long as i did.. how you and malcolm were so close.. its really hard to see all that end.. i love you brenda rod and zach.. R.I.P alan </3 |
this one of the saddest things i have ever heard!!! :( it made me cry...im so sorry for ur loss and u guys are in my prayers |
A young life, like my own son, taken way too soon. May you find some peace knowing that he is without pain and watching out for you each and every day. |
rest in peacee |
I think of you often!!! You are so greatly missed!! |
ALAN i saw your pic up at the N.O.P.E presentation and i was really sad i have seen this presentation twice already and i hope your family knows how much they miss you b/c all they talk about in the presentation is you and other people that have died from drungs and this presentation as helped me understand and helped my friends understand what drungs can really do to you even once. THANK YOU and miss even though i dont know you |
Brenda, it seems like yesterday you called to tell me of your loss. We still think of you and your family oftend and continue to pray for you. May God help you find peace within your heart. |
ALan in so many ways you've changed my life, i can't be there to sit next to you this year, cause im going to school to make a change for everyone's life, i've loved you and i've missed you for so long now. it was like yesterday that we were going to a valentines day dance together in 7th grade and your mom kissed me on my cheek. or your 13 b day party where me and my friend angle were the only girls there and i shoved cake in your face and said alan james hoffman i love you, and you take my breath away. at 13!! you make me smile everyday and i only have good memories of you, because your my best memory of life. i love you dearly alan and one day im going to tell your mom about "the secret" just one day i will. i love you forever. no matter what girl came i was alawys the girl. forever in my heart |
I love you Alan, I miss you. |
It's going to be 3 long years in just a little over a week since we lost you. I still remember your ability to light up anyone & everyone's day whether you personally knew them or not, you were just the type of person everyone liked. we promised each other a lot of things & how we'll always be there for each other. you have no idea how much i miss you alan ]:<3
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I miss and love you alan. Been thinking about you. |
i didnt know alan personally, but i have heard alot about him, i knew his mom through my sister and she was a very kind/couragous woman. our school will NEVER forget him. its so sad such a young life had to end. it made me realize alot. |
Very Sorry for your loss. I hope that you can heal through your efforts and work to help parents prevent Drug and alcohol abuse. Our family will pray for Alan and for You guys. |
Brenda, I found this by accident. There is nothing that I could say that could possibly ease the pain. I have four boys and cannot imagine the pain that you must still be going through. Our famiy will pray for your family and remember that God has his own plan for us all. I hope that time will at least help to heal your loss some and we will pray for you. |
– From Anonymous on June 17, 2009 |
hey alAn you will be missed i remember tht one day at the skate park tht was fun WELL RIP MAN CYA WEN I GET THERE |
r.i.p alan man we gunna miss u dwn here!!!
r.i.p
much love! |
a good friend a loving heart he cared about every one |
They say there is 2 people who belong together.
And out of millions of other people they have to choose they choose eachother.
We could have been one pair of those 2 people.
I miss you Alan. |
today i heard your story and it realy broke my heart |
Alan, peace
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I saw a picture of him at my school during the program at school, and yeah I like realized that one little mistake could affect your life and others lifes forever. And his memory I'd like to light a candle. and my friends and I think he is hot(includes cassidy) |
I saw a picture of him at my school during the program at school, and yeah I like realized that one little mistake could affect your life and others lifes forever. And his memory I'd like to light a candle. |
I saw a picture of him at my school during the program at school, and yeah I like realized that one little mistake could affect your life and others lifes forever. And his memory I'd like to light a candle. and my friends and I think he is hot(includes cassidy) |
I saw a picture of him at my school during the program at school, and yeah I like realized that one little mistake could affect your life and others lifes forever. And his memory I'd like to light a candle. |
U WILL BE MISSED |
You have great loving parents who would do anything to have you back. R.I.P. god is wtih you |
– From Roberta Alokoa on September 24, 2008 |
Alan I have never met you but from what your parents say you are a fine young man, I know you are in Heaven with with my son Colby hanging out, Just look out for him May God Bless All The Children |
Alan i dont know you personally but i had that persentation from that NOPE thing yesterday. wen i saw your picture i felt like i knew you. i was so saddened by your death it brought tears to my eyes. i wish ur life hadnt ended so soon. R.I.P <3 |
im am truley sorry |
I just read your story in Ladies' Home Journal. I also lost my son to methadone. |
I cannot imagine the emptiness...my heart goes out to you. May you feel his presense in your life. "Air hug" |
This story sounds just like my sons. His name was Taylor, he was into skateboarding, went to church, was a great kid. We talked to him about every drug, but methodone. Some kid stole from his grandmother and came to school with it. He came up to Taylor April 5th after school and told him it was okay to take this. I still cannot believe it. When Taylor came home that night, I talked to him and he seemed fine. The next morning (Good Friday )his friends came to pick him up for disc golf and his Dad went in his room with his friends and there he lay on the bed. To this day, I cannot work or think about anything else. I don't know what to do. There are days I just want to give up, but then I know I would not get into Heaven. Of course, we said "that would never happen to our child". There were over 300 kids at his funeral, they had to stand. The kids email me a lot, they just don't know what to do. I also feel bad for them. He was our only child. , We moved in August after the trial. We moved to a different city. The kid only got probation. The school has done nothing to the kid. He transferred out, because he had a lot of threats from other students. The Judge cried when she read his punishment, she said that was all the law would allow. He was 16 when it happened and turned 17 before the trial in August. So he only has 10 months probation. |
I heard his story at school today. I think he needs to be remembered. |
I didn't know you personally, but I had an orientation at school about the NOPE task force, and I honestly think that your life was ended way to short for a 15 year old. May you Rest In Peace. |
We have never met but your story and the story of other's tragic death touched us all at my school
R.I.P |
Today NOPE came to my school (Tequesta Trace Middle School) and Alan Hoffman was the person who brought more attention to me, even though they didn't talk about him..I personally don't know him but I mourn his death and everyone else who died overdosing over drugs. |
R.I.P.
I MISS YOU BRO
ILL NEVER FORGET YOU |
Alan its been a long time but it feels like it was yesterday i got the phone call that bore that horrible news i miss u, u and Stephen u didnt deserve this u were taken to early i miss u and love u |
alan, i love you with all my heart...you were very kind, and the sweetest boy i have ever met...may your soul be put to rest...you will never be forgotten, but instead forever remembered by all who knew you...
Tiffany Danielle Fincher |
RIP Alan Hoffman!!!! My thoughts and prayers are with you |
I hope you rest in peace! |
I love U Alan I miss u |
Alan, Darling. I miss you so much, every so often I have these days I do nothing but think of you, and wish I could go back to that night at Angel's house and just let you know how much I care about you, And that everything will be ok. Eventually,it will be ok. Love! |
May the memory of our children, our relatives and our friends, who have passed, live on in our hearts, forever honored and memorialized. May the dreams they had and the lives they lived be remembered always, and may each heart and soul they touched, though forever changed, be healed.
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i love u and i miss u so much hope to see u soon |
man i know i barly new u but u were a cool kid and i wish we could skate more then we did and the safeway parking lot will never be the same with out u and my cousin |
R.I.P. |
MAY GOD BLESS AND STRENGTHEN YOUR FAMILY |
Miss you man wish you were here, always remembered by big trey |
Alan i love you and i always will. I will see you again one day. Until that day I will be missing and praying for you. |
I'm sorry I can't be there on the anniversary to light your candle my husband...I will light many here for you, I love you. |
Alan you were so amazing and you meant so much to so many people and you were never be forgotten. You will live on through the ones that love and knew you! We MISS and LOVE you dearly and always! NEVER FORGET |
I miss you so much, you'll be in my heart forever. |
I miss you so much things arent the same with out you everyday I wake up & know I will never see you again I wish I could of told you i loved you one last time & held you in my arms! u r forever loved |
Alan we miss your laughter in the hall at school and your joy at the skatepark we will always love and miss you see you boy. |
Alan,
You are still amazing inside and out. I will never forget the special things that made you, you. You brought a smile to my face every time I saw you, and it all left so quickly. I love you!!! |
Alan,
I miss you so much. I Love you & I'm NEVER going to forget you. You left WAY to soon. I cant wait to see you in heaven. I love you |
I love and miss you so much. You're the greatest friend and boyfriend anybody could have ever asked for. I love you so much. I'll be with you soon. You are my everything and I'm sorry I never told you |
A life gone to soon with so much more to live. We miss and love you so much.
Love Mom,Dad,and Zach |